Wednesday, September 14, 2011

I don't know if this has been asked before, but...?

My husband and his brother were adopted when they were 3 and 5. They have no contact with their birth mother and have not been in contact with her since the adoption. All we know about this woman is her first name, and a couple of her previous last names (apparently, she was a 'career criminal' and changed identities and got married ALOT). We don't know where she's from, or any way in which to contact her. I believe the adoption was a closed one. My husband is completely disinterested in establishing a relationship with, or even contacting this woman, but it is very important that we get his birth family's medical history. Does anyone know how we should go about doing so? I don't even know where to begin.



Thank you in advance.I don%26039;t know if this has been asked before, but...?
in all probability... you can't.

I have heard of a FEW RARE cases of judges who unsealed adoption records, but ONLY in a life/death situation where the knowledge might save someone (ie possible transplant candidates).

A medical history of persons beyond the mother is a good thing to have, but in most situations, is NOT required. A doctor can identify what someone has, without medical background, and treat it. In fact, I have an adopted son.. and grandson through him, with medical problems, and it took me weeks to explain to the mom... that I can't provide her with info that is non existant, not to mention that having that info would not change what the doctor was now doing. It was not that I didn't care (as she accused me, in anger).

Bottom line is that hubby makes the decision, and you already stated that he does not choose to pursue it. Medical history isn't a public record, and even if he DID find her, that would not be certain she would know ..or give.. personal info.I don%26039;t know if this has been asked before, but...?
wow u must feel bad!



well i think thaT you should ask your local docters to see the records and maybe go to the adoption centere to track down the mother hope it helps!I don%26039;t know if this has been asked before, but...?
Adoption records are sealed and you need a judge to grant access to read them (usually read only and not be able to have copies). If you know the name of the adoption agency or who handled it, you may be able to contact them and ask for any medical information on the records. I would suggest having a third party contact the birth mother for family medical history so she can't contact your husband.I don%26039;t know if this has been asked before, but...?
You need to contact a lawyer in the state that the adoption took place.

They will be able to help you petition the court to access the sealed records that may contain medical information.

How to run away to India?

I would like to run away to India with about 3000$

I want to change my identity and everything, I dont want anybody else to find this out....how can I pull this off??

And what do I need to do?How to run away to India?
Why? why? why?

why u want 2 run?

is der any prob wid ur family? if not then why? u fool! this is ur life baby take ur own dicizion Rani.

if ur last disicion is 2 run then go ahead?

I know der iz nothing like that.How to run away to India?
will you blend in or stand out like a sore thumb?!

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Find a Blackmarket dealer. And stay off the damn internet, hint hint!How to run away to India?
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    I have found out that my social security card number is being used by an EX relation. Credit cards are repeatedly issued in my name, and I have closed countless accounts over the years, but new cards keep getting issued in this person's name with my social security number.



    If I have documented proof of identity theft, would the Social Security Administration accept this as a valid reason to have my social security number changed? My credit is ruined because of this person.



    If there is no way to get a new social security number, how can I ever restore my credit?Can I have my social security number changed due to identity theft?
    yes.



    If you have done all you can to fix the problems resulting from misuse of your Social Security number and someone still is using your number, we may assign you a new number.



    You cannot get a new Social Security number:



    To avoid the consequences of filing for bankruptcy;

    If you intend to avoid the law or your legal responsibility; or

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    If you receive a new Social Security number, you will not be able use the old number anymore.



    For some victims of identity theft, a new number actually creates new problems. If the old credit information is not associated with the new number, the absence of any credit history under the new number may make it more difficult for you to get credit.Can I have my social security number changed due to identity theft?
    Go to your Social Security office with your evidence.Can I have my social security number changed due to identity theft?
    Yea you can just go apply for a social security just call the IRS and ask them what you should do. My aunt went through the same thing. They will actually flag your account for Identity Theft. Hope this can help you with your situationCan I have my social security number changed due to identity theft?
    First of all call up the credit bearu and put a fraud alert on your account. With this any time someone opens up a account in your name the credit bearu will have to get permission through you, otherwise the account cant be open.



    I think that SSA should be able to change your number, I dont see why not.



    With respect to restoring your credit, it can be time consuming, but you will have to work with the credit rating agency. Pull up your credit report (by federal law you can get one free at annualcreditreport.com). anything that is not your, dispute it with the agency.



    you might also want to consider filling charges against the person and possibly suing them.



    Good luck with everything!Can I have my social security number changed due to identity theft?
    It's tempting, but you wouldn't want to do that. Think how backwards the SS system is, now think that they will handle things cleanly so that when you are ready to retire you will be able to collect your benefits.



    If you are getting exhausted trying to deal with this situation now, think how wiped out you will be at 75 when you are trying to convince the SS dept. that you are one and the same as that %26quot;number%26quot; that paid into the administration out of his or her paychecks for so many years.



    Solution: call the 3 major credit unions and put a flag on your number. This way, any time someone wants to open an account using your credit, there is a flag that says NO. You are entitled to a free copy of your credit report. Check it out and see what accounts are open, then call each creditor and cancel the account.



    You might have to check your credit report every year to make sure the flags are still in place and that nothing has slipped through, but it's worth it!



    Good luck.Can I have my social security number changed due to identity theft?
    have your evidence ready %26amp; have it notarized by a lawyer specifying your letter to request another SSN due to identity theft just be sure you have proof that you tried to patch things out to make it valid.. They'd would help youCan I have my social security number changed due to identity theft?
    Get the person arrested, charged and jailed that stole your number.



    As well as getting the fraud alert on your credit report.



    If you can prove that these cards and all were taken out by someone other than you, the agencies have to take them off your record which will improve your credit report back to the way it was.

    How do i change my yahoo identity account?

    first time i register a yahoo account i forgot what i'd submit like %26quot;Birthday date, ZIP (or Postal) Code, Country or Territory and personal ask(like mother name, pet name etc%26quot;, https://edit.yahoo.com/config/forgo... , i want to recover my yahoo identity if i forget my passwordHow do i change my yahoo identity account?
    Hopefully, you filled the form out with truthful info, which would make it easier to remember. If you forget your password, go to the login page anyway - on that page is a Forget Your Password link, which you can click on, and follow the directions on the resulting page.How do i change my yahoo identity account?
    i think you go to edit my info

    Who, exactly, are the "insurgents" in Iraq?

    Are the insurgents the same every day, or do their identities change? How can the soldiers tell who is who? What a mess!

    Also, who says the Iraqis want to live in a democracy; they have always lived in a theocracy. (I hope my spelling is correct there!). For America to go over there, invade their country and then try to tell them how they are going to be governed from now on is the very height of arrogance. How would we like it if another country came in here and did the same thing to us?Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    Hi Warrior,



    The insurgents are neighboring countries who do not want us in Iraq any more than the Iraqis do and are trying to help out as they are not fighting the Iraqis, they are fighting against us.



    The Majority of Iraqis feel they were much better off under Saddam. At least then, their country was not in shambles and not in the middle of a civil war started for the reasons you mention in your question. They do not want bush force feeding them with what bush refers to as democracy as it doesn't seem to be working for them at all.



    I guess they have a hard time seeing the good side of democracy when it destroys their country, slaughters their citizens, and puts them at civil war with their own countrymen.



    Maybe bush needs to send condi over to re-explain everything, as the reason for our being there seems to be wearing thin . . . . . .(again!)



    let's see, I think it all started over weapons of mass destruction and last I heard, it's about fighting terrorism, but problem is, Saddam was not a terrorist, nor were the citizens of Iraq, but Saddam paid with his life, and his people are paying by no longer having any lives to live, they have nothing but empty promises from bush, much like the citizens of New Orleans after Katrina.

    The whole thing is sickening



    Darryl S.Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    There a bunch of Foreign fighters who are fighting the American troops because they hate Democracy and freedom so F**k them To Hell..And im not AmericanWho, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    from what i hear..in iraq the insurgents(terrorists) are the ones wearing tennis shoes...the normal people wear sandals...Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    Where to start my man..



    Firstly, Iraq was neevr a 'Theocacy', its never had a Religious Sha as its leader. Iraq has thousands of years if history, dating back to the times of Babylon, you may want to remember that friend.



    Also, the 'Insurgency' is by no means one group, its a mixture of Shia and Sunni groups, with their own agendas and means to reach themWho, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    They are doctors that do surgery.Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    Insugents are the enemy. Dont understand why The USA approves of splitting up Yugoslavia but not Iraq to Kurds, Shiites and Sunnis or find a dictator like Tito Democracy doesnt seem to work there.Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    most normal people would rather live in freedom than under a dictator who thinks his word is God. OTOH, there are those who are too weak to have freedom and keep wishing to live under such a one.



    some of the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; are terrorists from other countries. some are Iraqi's who don't like the occupation. some are Iraqi's who are afraid of the other side, whoever they perceive it to be.Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    You don't even know what an insurgent is or can't spell but you with your limited knowledge of what is even going on over there yet you are putting our country down for it's arrogance??? Oh but for the ignorance of our youth!!!!!!!!!Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    There are numerous native insurgency groups, Sunni and Shia. There are also foreign insurgents, but these groups are much, much smaller groups than the native insurgencies.



    Regular Iraqis probably do not care what their government is labeled as long as it can provide peace and security so they can live normal lives in peace.



    Iraq was NOT a theocracy. Under Saddam Hussein Iraq was a secular state.



    If the United States were ever invaded by a foreign millitary, unlikely in this nuclear age, the foreign military would face an extremely hostile and well armed native insurgency.Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    An insurgent is the media and democrats thinly way of saying 'freedom fighters' It is simply an Orwellian contrivance that takes away from the fact that these gangs of people are killing each other and our forces.



    There are probably of hundred different groups with different goals that overlap. So, I would say they change from day to day.



    Sadr is a great threat and he should have been swinging from a lamppost in down town bagdhad when we had the chance.Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    Sometimes the insurgents have been Baathist rebels who remained loyal to Saddam after the fall of Baghdad. Sometimes the insurgents have been foreign fighters led by people like Abu Musab al-Zarqawi, or domestic fighters like Muqtada al-Sadr, who have basically told their followers, %26quot;American forces have invaded Iraq; go wipe them out to their last man.%26quot;



    Still other times the insurgents have been infiltrators into the very government institutions we're trying to set up (i.e., Iraqi police forces).Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    The insurgents are people that are so angry because some one messed with its country, is that sufficient reason to be mad?Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    It's pretty much divided between these 3 groups:



    Sunnis: They were the minority in power courtesy of Saddam for 30 years. They know if a democracy is established in Iraq they will be a minority with the Kurds and Shiites looking for payback.



    Shiites: They are the ones who want to establish an Iranian style government.



    Jihadists: They are the Al-Qaeda types who just want to get the US out of Iraq.Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    I think the idea is that Saddam was of one group and now they are working on a system that has more equal representation for the various splinter groups in the country (just like revolutionary America) and those who are opposed to this idea are the insurgents. I think many of those insurgents are part of the same group as Saddam and don't like the loss of power or the fear that they will be mistreated by other groups as that has been the policy in the past. I think it is likely very hard to tell the difference, unless the insurgents wear an identifier (which they might, even just to have their face covered or something).



    While I don't like Bush and I think Iraq is a personal thing for him - something he came to this presidency with as a goal - I think he feels that we've been asked or had a responsibility to go there. I have heard him say (and he seems to believe) that the citizens wanted the change and he helped them. It's the kindest way for me to think of his point of view, but I would like to see him and Cheney removed from the equation, now that Nancy Pelossi would be the next person who would step into the presidency upon Impeachment.



    Frankly, I would like to see that. It's a great way to get a woman in the door and take some of the nonsense away from the notion of 1st female president - and they are surely grooming Barack Obama for great things. This could be an important first step toward getting rid of the racism and sexism that has plagued our government for so long. Pelossi and Obama in '08? Could be...



    Peace!Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    Sunnis and foreign fighters (non-Iraqi ).



    They lined up to vote , now didn't they.



    Our civilians would kick their A**!Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    Insurgents are the supportors of the previous regime or rebels that want a different government. Taliban, Al Quaida, or any host of other fanatical Muslim extremeists. These insurgents want the Muslim religion to rule.



    You are right, no one knows who is the bad guy,that is what make this ward so tough. Better to shoot first and ask for ID later.



    We are as close as possible to the perfect society and it's a proven way of life...We are only trying to give the Iraqis what they deserve and implement peace....although they sure do like to fight and will fight with anyone, including themselves.



    In regards to someone attacking us and trying to implement their type of rule, is highly unlikely. The other 3rd world countries don't have the organization or means, that is why they need to be democrocized. Look at Iraq, they live and dress the same way as they did thousands of years ago. The only modern things they have are Satelite phones ( to call in an ambush ) Toyota Pick ups ( To blow up things with ) %26amp; AK47s ( To shoot people with)

    I'm sure they want to preserve their wonderful lifestyle.



    The insurgents are a very small % of the population. Once the people have a taste of freedom, they will embrace it, and the insugency will die out.



    Arrogant???? We are only attempting to improve the world we all live in....We need to protect and educate the 3rd worldWho, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    Any Iraqi who opposes the american occupation is termed an insurgent or even a terroris.The unfortunate invasion of Iraq by t

    he Americans is the tragedy of our time.

    Apparently some seriously unbalanced people are now in charge of running the affairs of the American state.And in as much as they remain in control,and in so far as the Americans are unable to challenge their 'mad max' tactics,so long will the world continue to suffer from their madness.Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    I've read all the blurbs above and find Stingray's answer the only beacon of hope to this question:

    hmmm let's see... Who is an insurgent?

    Cant be the Shias and the Sunnis... They are only bearing arms to throw the infidel out of their own lands..

    Could it be the gum chewing yank in Army and Marine uniforms raping their women and their country and behaving like Rambos, forcing the Iraqis into accepting the American way of Life, liberty and democracy as the only way to live?

    You go figure.... would you fight like hell if your home state was overrun by Hispanic youths advocating their way of life as the only correct way to live?Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    An insurgent is anybody against America. If the roles were reversed then they would be called loyalists. I think your right about us loosing the hearts and minds of people when you say spreading democracy failed but, really, or we in a position to do anything.Who, exactly, are the %26quot;insurgents%26quot; in Iraq?
    alright the insurgents in iraq are divided into many sub groups, you have the JAM, these guys have infiltrated the IA and form a large group within it, (sorry the arbic spelling is beyond me) this is Sadr's group (ie remeber Sadr City fight in baghdad) this group is very active and orginised with estimates reaching 200000 members there standard MO is to emplace IED, and hit in run attacks with small arms and RPG. another group is Badr brigade these would be %26quot;elite%26quot; troops of the sunni insurgency, there members have infiltrated the IP to a large margin, these two groups share an uneasy alliance. there are numerous Shia groups who are retalitaing against the JAM and Badr Brigade (due to those two groups going out with %26quot;death squads%26quot; and murdering Shia citzens).



    Now the Sunnis and Shias are fighting a civil war with us in the middle. both sides are reciving support from outside goverments. Then you have the Jihadis who inflitrate the country, these members are there to mostly kill foreigners.



    a third group id like to add is the little known Pesh Magrin these are Kurd fighters these men i have worked with they are highly motivated and they work with the americans. they dont like %26quot;iraqis%26quot; sunni shia doesnt matter to them they dont like them



    most of the time to identify %26quot;insurgents%26quot; something bad has to happen IE take small arms fire, have an IED go off, or find weapons cache's.



    as to the iraqis living in democracy... throughout there entire history (spanning to the Mesopotamian empire) they have had monarchies and totalitarin regimes. people seem to think its easy to %26quot;install%26quot; a democracy... it isnt. they have no history of it, freedom of speech, religon, thought. coupled with that fact that there illteracy rate is rampant, and they hold a grudged forever. to %26quot;install%26quot; the democracy is going to take time (lots of it) 10-20 years were going to need to educate the younger generation and teach them it will work until that can be accomplished... well i dont know but its going to be bloody on all sides. will it ever happen i dont know id like to think some day it will though

    Thursday, June 2, 2011

    How do I reword this sentence?

    1. When compled with Cassie's decision ending with a no, it is evident that Cassie was trying to explore and define her identity.



    2. This relationship was beginning to suffocate Cassie and that is why she turned to Usher.



    3. Usher and Cassie slowly falls in love with each other as they agreed to runaway from home and hitchhike across the USA.



    4. This enables Cassie to leave behind her mundane life and become a totally different person to change her identity.



    I want it to sound better being written in third person also.How do I reword this sentence?
    In deciding to say 'no', Cassie explores and defines her identity.



    This suffocating relationship causes Cassie to turn to Usher.



    Usher and Cassie slowly fall in love with one another, agreeing to runaway together and hitchhike across America.



    This enables Cassie to leave behind her mundane life, transforming into a more independent and decisive person.

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